The Fifth qualities of victims and victors

A VICTIM  sees other people as the enemy.,

This ties in with wanting to blame someone

and often results in arguments, meltdowns and sometimes fights.

As it says in James 4:1,2 "What causes fights and quarrels among you?

Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you quarrel and fight.

You do not have because you do not ask God.” The focus is on people who are blocking your way, not God.

This is exactly what Satan wants; he is called" the accuser of the brethren,”

and when we listen to him, we, too will accuse those around us.

In contrast, the VICTOR sees that the real enemy is Satan.

He understands that it is  Satan is using people against him,

and that if he fights people, he will lose; but if he fights Satan, he will win.

As it says in James 4:7, "Submit yourselves, then, to God.

Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

Part of this is learning to use the armor of God against Satan.

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